tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7822508371268016662024-02-20T14:52:28.801-08:00Miscellaneous MichelleRandom bits & pieces from the life of one very distracted work-from-home mommyMichellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13788846882063838412noreply@blogger.comBlogger35125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-782250837126801666.post-46656628472618358512011-09-26T14:03:00.000-07:002011-09-26T21:55:11.595-07:00It hurts like $!&%!!!What is it about being a mom that makes us feel guilty about every darn thing? Or is it just something about being a woman? Today I have been fretting over whether or not I want to continue nursing my sweet, precious baby. This is not the first time I have visited my options. Before she was born I questioned whether I wanted to breastfeed at all. It has never been my favorite thing. But I decided to give it a month both for the benefit of my baby and for the special one on one time it gives me with her.<br />
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After that first month, I again decided to keep going. This time my dilemma was that I was struggling to finish my work assignments in a timely manner and to balance all of my responsibilities. I chose to continue breastfeeding because it FORCES me to slow down. While work isn't an option, I am blessed to work from home on my own timetable. I decided that in ten years I won't miss whatever project I am currently working on and I won't care so much that my house wasn't perfect. I will, however, miss this precious baby time that speeds by much too quickly.<br />
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Today (she's now 4 months) I am again at a crossroads. I am in such horrible pain - maybe thrush, maybe mastitis... I don't know - that I honestly do not know if I can bear to continue on. Feeding my baby is a tearful, very painful ordeal that has only been getting worse for the last couple of weeks. Expressing the milk with a pump now hurts horrendously as well. It's even getting difficult to hold my sweet baby because of the excruciating pain. I'm not sure that breastfeeding is worth that or my shortness (caused by pain) with my older kids.<br />
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I made a doctor's appointment (later today) to assess the issue, but the point is... why do we have to guilt ourselves so much when things aren't absolutely perfect? Personally, I feel very strongly that "the right way" of doing things looks very different for each of us. Yet, we still feel the need to compare ourselves to some golden standard of SuperWoman.<br />
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In the end, I'd rather make the decision myself than have some illness determine whether or not I continue nursing.That being said, I don't see how torturing myself makes me a better mom. I'll let you know how it goes.<br />
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Thoughts?<br />
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Update: The doctor says it's mastitis. I started the meds and nursed again on the ouchie side (insert swear word of choice --- yes, it hurts that bad). Still on the fence about my "options". We'll see how it goes. Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13788846882063838412noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-782250837126801666.post-85865220026470232742011-09-07T17:10:00.000-07:002011-09-07T17:12:53.242-07:00Adjusting and catching up...It's been a busy few months in our house as we've transitioned from a family of 6 to a family of 7. I think that actually might say it all! Our new baby girl was born exactly one week before the last day of school. Needless to say, the summer has flown by and we're all starting to adjust to life with a baby. The four older kids started back to school just a couple of weeks ago - so it's just baby and me during the day. I'm relishing every moment and learning how to work from home with a newborn. It will be a journey to say the least ... and I'll be sure to document it and share all that I'm learning moving forward.<br />
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In the meantime, I'll be catching up on our summer adventures with some pictures and random thoughts.<br />
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Stay in touch!<br />
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<br />Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13788846882063838412noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-782250837126801666.post-40754607562567984832011-03-22T10:30:00.000-07:002011-03-22T10:30:02.846-07:00Moving on up...A couple of weeks ago The Showoff and I got to go tour his soon-to-be new school. I can hardly believe he will be starting junior high. He, of course, is very excited. His school is new - it just opened up for this school year and only has 7th and 8th graders. It's also HUGE! The Showoff was a little overwhelmed by it all and sure he was going to get lost. I'm sure he'll get used to it fast! Me, on the other hand, could do without all of the stairs!! This school was definitely not made for pregnant girls! Uggh...<br />
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I'm definitely not looking forward to all of the school fees. On top of all the standard fees (which I still don't know exactly how much to expect), Showoff signed up for band. <i>Did you know that the oboe is one of more expensive instruments?</i> <b>Neither did I</b>... <u>until it was too late</u>. If only I was more musically inclined....<br />
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Stay posted... I'm sure junior high will be a whole new adventure with lots of fun, crazy stories. EEEK... I'm really scared!Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13788846882063838412noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-782250837126801666.post-51586153524420454202011-03-21T00:35:00.000-07:002011-03-21T00:35:15.820-07:00To my momI'm writing this post for my mom, who has been struggling with the recent loss of her mom. I can't say that I know what she is going through, but I can empathize. I don't think it's ever easy to lose a mom... even when she has lived a long and full life. Death is always hard for the ones who are left behind - no matter when or how it occurs.<br />
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I think the only thing that makes such a loss harder is when your support system crumbles with it. You would think that death would be a time for families to come together in remembrance, love and support. After all, who could possibly understand the loss of mother more than one's own siblings? But sometimes death brings blame, fighting and selfishness. This has been the case for my mom who has increasingly felt like the load is too much to bear.<br />
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Over the past several weeks, I've thought a lot about what I could possibly say to her to lift her spirits. I am a woman of faith. My faith has sustained me through many great trials and is the backbone of all that I am. <span style="font-size: large;">I don't believe that God will ever give us more than we can bear</span> - <u><i>but that doesn't mean that our trials won't be hard at times</i></u>. Sometimes, He allows us to suffer in the hopes that we will turn to Him and learn that we need Him and that we must rely on Him always. It isn't enough to say, <b>"Why Lord?"</b> Instead we must learn to ask, <b>"What am I to learn from this?"</b> and <b>"What is thy will, Lord?"</b> I've learned that I have to admit that sometimes things surpass my understanding and I have to hand my will and my sorrows over to Him and then trust that He can make more of my life than I can on my own.<br />
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My greatest trial in life was most definitely when I lost my dad to violence. I was just barely 21and it almost ruined me. There were so many times that I thought it was more than I could bear and that <i>I couldn't possibly go on</i>. Things only started to turn around when <b>I finally fell to my knees</b> and handed it over to a loving Father in Heaven. I didn't understand why I was given such a horrendous trial, I only knew that it was time for me to start feeling <i>happy</i> again. I asked for help to find that. The answers came... <b>but only when I was ready for them</b>.<br />
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Bit by bit ... piece by piece. ... Over several years. But the despair was lifted much sooner... little by little, more and more as I continued to rely on Him and trust in His will and in His love for me.<br />
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I've decided - in honor of my family and my dad as well as for future generations and anyone else who might benefit from it - to write about my journey to forgiveness and what I learned and how I overcame the murder of my father. I don't talk about it often, but it is very much a part of who I am today - partially the loss but mostly the journey and what I have learned along the way.<br />
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In the meantime, I am posting the lyrics to a song that I love by JJ Heller. It is a piece of contemporary Christian music that speaks to how He <b>IS</b> there through our trials. I hope that it will bring comfort to my mom - who I love dearly - and anyone else who may need it. <br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><i><b><u>Your Hands - JJ Heller</u></b></i></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: center;"><i>I have unanswered prayers<br />
I have trouble I wish wasn't there<br />
And I have asked a thousand ways<br />
That You would take my pain away<br />
That You would take my pain away<br />
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I am trying to understand</i> <i><br />
How to walk this weary land<br />
Make straight the paths that crooked lie<br />
Oh Lord, before these feet of mine<br />
Oh Lord, before these feet of mine<br />
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When my world is shaking</i> <i><br />
Heaven stands<br />
When my heart is breaking<br />
I never leave Your hands<br />
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When You walked upon the Earth</i> <i><br />
You healed the broken, lost, and hurt<br />
I know You hate to see me cry<br />
One day You will set all things right<br />
Yea, one day You will set all things right<br />
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When my world is shaking</i> <i><br />
Heaven stands<br />
When my heart is breaking<br />
I never leave Your hands<br />
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Your hands</i> <i><br />
Your hands that shape the world <br />
Are holding me, they hold me still<br />
Your hands that shape the world<br />
Are holding me, they hold me still<br />
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When my world is shaking</i> <i><br />
Heaven stands<br />
When my heart is breaking<br />
I never leave You when...<br />
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When my world is shaking</i> <i><br />
Heaven stands<br />
When my heart is breaking<br />
I never leave...<br />
I never leave Your hands </i><br />
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<div style="text-align: left;">love,</div><div style="text-align: left;">Michelle Rene</div><div style="text-align: left;"> </div><div style="text-align: left;"><i>Share the love --- Comments are much appreciated!</i></div></div>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13788846882063838412noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-782250837126801666.post-75329461935414546522011-01-03T11:33:00.000-08:002011-01-03T11:33:00.335-08:00In His Service - Lessons Learned in My Service as a Relief Society President<div class="MsoNormal"><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:WordDocument> <w:View>Normal</w:View> <w:Zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:TrackMoves/> <w:TrackFormatting/> <w:PunctuationKerning/> <w:ValidateAgainstSchemas/> <w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid> <w:IgnoreMixedContent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent> <w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText> <w:DoNotPromoteQF/> <w:LidThemeOther>EN-US</w:LidThemeOther> <w:LidThemeAsian>X-NONE</w:LidThemeAsian> <w:LidThemeComplexScript>X-NONE</w:LidThemeComplexScript> <w:Compatibility> <w:BreakWrappedTables/> <w:SnapToGridInCell/> <w:WrapTextWithPunct/> <w:UseAsianBreakRules/> <w:DontGrowAutofit/> <w:SplitPgBreakAndParaMark/> <w:DontVertAlignCellWithSp/> <w:DontBreakConstrainedForcedTables/> <w:DontVertAlignInTxbx/> <w:Word11KerningPairs/> <w:CachedColBalance/> </w:Compatibility> <w:BrowserLevel>MicrosoftInternetExplorer4</w:BrowserLevel> <m:mathPr> <m:mathFont m:val="Cambria Math"/> <m:brkBin m:val="before"/> <m:brkBinSub m:val="--"/> <m:smallFrac m:val="off"/> <m:dispDef/> <m:lMargin m:val="0"/> <m:rMargin m:val="0"/> <m:defJc m:val="centerGroup"/> <m:wrapIndent m:val="1440"/> <m:intLim m:val="subSup"/> <m:naryLim m:val="undOvr"/> </m:mathPr></w:WordDocument> </xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:LatentStyles DefLockedState="false" DefUnhideWhenUsed="true"
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</div><div class="MsoNormal">Before I got called to serve, I already felt love the women in my ward. In fact, I loved the whole ward in general. I do have an amazing ward. But once I recieved this assignment and had Priesthood hands laid upon my head to officially set me apart, the love grew immediately. I came in with my own love for these women in tact and I had the Savior's love added on to that.</div><div class="MsoNormal"> </div><div class="MsoNormal">I was priveleged to feel His love for the women served on so many many occasions. Once as I sat in the front of the Relief Society room and looked out upon these amazing women, I was completely overcome with this love. It took over and brought me to tears. I know those powerful feelings were the Lord telling me, "These are my precious daughters and I LOVE them."</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I wouldn't trade that feeling for anything. NOTHING is sweeter than His love. Whenever I was on His errand, I felt that love in such powerful ways. If you ever question His love for you, just kneel down and ask Him. And serve Him. I promise that it is greater, deeper and sweeter than anything you can imagine. And you will never want to lose it. He LOVES His children. </div>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13788846882063838412noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-782250837126801666.post-178514581084987142010-12-31T10:42:00.000-08:002010-12-31T10:42:00.534-08:00In His Service - Lessons Learned in My Service as a Relief Society President<div class="MsoNormal">Lesson 4: When I offer my life and whole heart to the Lord… He makes of me something much better than I could ever make of myself</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">The year before I got called to serve as a Relief Society president was a hard one for me. I had been struggling with some personal issues that stemmed from tragedies that were out of my control. Somewhere in the ensuing years, I had lost bits and pieces of myself - so much so that I could hardly recognize myself anymore.</div><div class="MsoNormal"> </div><div class="MsoNormal">Somewhere I had heard that service was the best cure for depression and though I didn't consider myself "depressed", I definitely wasn't happy. I decided that I was going to give a portion of my time to meaningful service. I believe that conscious decision was the first step leading to this calling. And it was a decision that has changed my life.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I was scared when I got this assignment, but I believe that the call came from my Father in Heaven and how could I possibly say no to Him? I knew that it would take a lot of my time, focus and energy, but again, I could not say no. I didn't realize then how much the Lord would give me in return.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Somewhere in all of the challenges, frustrations and time spent over the last three years I FOUND MYSELF. I can recognize the girl that I was so many years ago (with some added maturity and wisdom) and I can look to the future with hopefulness and purpose. I'm a better wife, mom and friend because of it. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">When I accepted the call to serve I, in essence, handed over my life, my heart, my time and resources to the Lord. And He has made me into something better. And here's the amazing part -- it doesn't have to end. I can continue handing my life and heart over to Him. I can continue to serve Him. Maybe not in the same capacity, but I can go on serving and He will go on molding me into something better and better than I could ever make of myself.</div>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13788846882063838412noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-782250837126801666.post-46232561995829839862010-12-27T09:51:00.000-08:002010-12-27T09:51:00.455-08:00In His Service - Lessons Learned in My Service as a Relief Society PresidentLesson 3: The Greatest Challenges Bring the Greatest Rewards<br />
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When I got called to be the Relief Society president I was TERRIFIED! More so than I can remember being in a long, long time. I felt completely inadequate and I was certain that the Bishop was going to call me and tell me that he had made a mistake.... He didn't.<br />
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I think I worried about every imaginable thing... people were going to judge me, look at me, need me to have the right answers and expect me to be perfect. I was sure that I was going to let everyone down. Then e that very first Sunday. I had to sit up in the front of the Relief Society room so that everyone could see me. I must have been shaking and I felt like I was going to vomit. My 2nd counselor, Liz Kirkby, came and sat down beside me. And she put her arm around me. I literally felt buoyed up. I don't know that she knows how much that affected me and lifted me when I really needed it, but for the first time I felt like it was going to be okay.<br />
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I definitely did not raise my hand and volunteer for this assignment, but it has literally changed my life. Doing the hard things has given me renewed confidence in myself and taught me how to rely on my Father in Heaven.<br />
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Sometimes we are required to say things that seem to be out of our nature and to put ourselves in situations that are uncomfortable for us. But the hardest, most challenging things bring the greatest and deepest rewards. It was hard for me to be in charge. I didn't want it to seem as if I put myself on top of others or thought of myself as better. I didn't. Making decisions that affect others is scary, but I developed some of the greatest friendships I have ever had and I have seen lives change. That is so rewarding and sustaining and faith-building.Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13788846882063838412noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-782250837126801666.post-60094528186145389192010-12-24T09:11:00.000-08:002010-12-24T09:11:00.067-08:00In His Service - Lessons Learned in My Service as a Relief Society PresidentLesson2: He Lives<br />
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I can't count the number of times I have witnessed this truth over the last three years. I can't say that I witnessed any huge miraculous events, but I definitely saw His hand in many, many small and simple things.<br />
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At one time I kept thinking of a woman in my ward.For no particular reason, her name kept coming up in conversations and she kept popping into my mind. It turned out that one of my counselors was having the same experience. We scheduled an appointment to visit with her. At first everything was fairly casual as we caught up on the daily comings and goings of her life. But by the end, we knew exactly why we were there. She needed someone to listen to her and to love her. We couldn't fix her problems for her, but at least we were aware of them now and could support her through them.<br />
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As I went home that day, I felt the power and love of my Savior. I knew that He had a hand in this work. This wonderful woman needed to feel His love and He sent us to give it to her.<br />
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This experience has been repeated on several occasions with other women throughout my time in His service. The events may not have been grand but the accumulation of these experiences is more than I could ever create on my own. He Lives and He is a present and active force in our lives, We can KNOW this for ourselves simply by paying attention to these small and simple things.<br />
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I know my Savior lives.Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13788846882063838412noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-782250837126801666.post-66628372081905047422010-12-20T08:00:00.000-08:002010-12-20T08:00:00.555-08:00In His Service - Lessons Learned in My Service as a Relief Society PresidentLesson 1: You Love Those that You Serve<br />
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Nothing builds love quite like service. Think about your children. Who else do you devote more of your time and energy to than them? Sure, there might be a genetic link - blood ties - but surely that growing love that continues to get stronger each day and each year is born of your complete dedication to your child.<br />
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That's the kind of love that comes from serving. When we serve someone, we become invested in a good outcome for them. When we add prayer and purpose to our service, the love and results are that much stronger. <br />
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I don't have many issues with many people. I really and truly get along well with most people that I meet. My feelings for each person aren't always equal, however. It's normal to "click" with some people more than with others. Before I got called as the ward Relief Society president, there was a woman who I didn't quite "click" with. It wasn't that I didn't like her... I just didn't know her very well. I thought she seemed nice enough but that she wasn't anyone I could really be friends with. As a Relief Society president, I was given a love for each sister under my stewardship. It was easy to love them. I could feel of my Savior's love for these women. But, that doesn't mean I "clicked" with all of them - including this one particular sister. Until, that is, I had the opportunity to personally serve her. My concern for her took over any other hesitations I had had previously. That service bore a great love and understanding of this woman that I am incredibly grateful for. <br />
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If there is someone that you are having a hard time understanding or getting along with - take the time to do some kind acts of service. Even something as simple as praying for them can truly go a long way at helping you to see past the minor irritations and annoyances to the deeper goodness that lies within most people.<br />
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When has an act of service caused a change of heart for you? Share your comments below... or write a blog post and link it up here for others to read.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-782250837126801666.post-22688768889168478492010-12-19T17:16:00.000-08:002010-12-19T17:16:26.280-08:00A New Chapter and a Mixed Bag of EmotionsToday I was released from a church calling that I've served in for the last three years of my life. (For those that don't understand, a calling is kind of like volunteer work that we don't volunteer for. We willingly serve because we believe it is our duty to God.) This calling has been heavy at times and yes, I do feel some measure of relief. But I also feel incredibly <span style="font-size: large;"><b>sad</b></span>, <i>unsettled</i>, <span style="color: #cc0000; font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">anxious</span>, <span style="font-size: large;">excited</span>, and more than anything - <b><i><span style="font-size: large;">grateful</span></i></b>.<br />
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I have had the amazing opportunity to serve the women in my ward, to learn from them, <i>to cry with them</i>, to pray for them and to watch them grow. In the meantime, it has been me that has probably grown the most. I have been <b>so blessed</b>. I have grown to love these women so much and I am incredibly sad for this chapter of my life to be over. I will miss visiting these women in their homes and caring for their needs. I know our friendship doesn't end with this assignment but the dynamics will surely change.<br />
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With this release will come a loss of divine inspiration that was definitely present and needed for me to be able to serve in this capacity. <b style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">And oh how I will miss it</b>. I have felt the love of my Savior constantly for the last three years. I know He still loves me and I know He will provide other opportunities for me to serve. I look forward to those opportunities because more than anything, I have learned the value of service. Whenever we give of ourselves,<u> it is given back to us tenfold</u>.<br />
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I am so grateful for the women I have been able to serve with. They are some of my very best friends. I have learned that we love the people we serve <span style="font-size: large;">and</span> we love the people we serve <u>with</u>. I love these women and am grateful for all of the wonderful memories that I get to take with me and the deep friendships.<br />
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I have put together a series of posts about what I have learned in this service. They are probably more for mine and my family's sake, but I hope you will oblige me by allowing me to post them here to share with whomever may wish to read them. I think there is <i>something for everyone in these posts</i>. And then we can get back to the<b style="color: #741b47;"> laughter and mayhem</b> of everyday living with <strike>four</strike> <b><span style="font-size: large;">soon-to-be-five kids</span></b> and one chaotic work-from-home mommy.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">I wish I would have taken more pictures!!</td></tr>
</tbody></table>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-782250837126801666.post-36003728122637691522010-12-13T04:44:00.000-08:002010-12-19T21:27:38.947-08:00Signs of Aging -- Never!So, the other day Lil' Mama and I are driving and she turns to me and says, "Ooh, mom, you have a gray hair. Right there, I see it."<br />
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<div style="text-align: center;">.....Pause for dramatic effect.....</div><br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjyMAfUdmE2NkXLacAn_ZO2tMxNhhoV5wlYCVmNz8O0c1YUsNXuBzE5I9aXwO1KA_CEXt3BmjnT8Dwcrz_-pe3evpkGkCACzKYQKdYWVBu1N84baiDGQlqM4tHwBt2we8z-uup9HstnTXGm/s1600/gray+hair.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjyMAfUdmE2NkXLacAn_ZO2tMxNhhoV5wlYCVmNz8O0c1YUsNXuBzE5I9aXwO1KA_CEXt3BmjnT8Dwcrz_-pe3evpkGkCACzKYQKdYWVBu1N84baiDGQlqM4tHwBt2we8z-uup9HstnTXGm/s200/gray+hair.jpg" width="200" /></a></div>So, I did what any self respecting woman my age would do --- I DENIED IT, of course. And then I plucked it out when she wasn't looking!<br />
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Time to visit my hair dresser.<br />
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This, by the way, is a first for me. I guess I can't complain... I made it to 34, but oh how I'd hoped to hold out for a little while longer.<br />
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What do you do to hide or prevent those pesky signs of your true age from showing? Do you prefer to embrace it or deny, deny, deny?Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13788846882063838412noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-782250837126801666.post-14635281738670856782010-12-12T07:49:00.000-08:002010-12-12T07:49:55.762-08:00I'm backAfter trying out WordPress, I've decided to come on back to Blogger. I'm sure some of you will disagree but the truth is that I'm just too dang busy to figure out WordPress. Maybe one of these days I'll get it and want to switch again, but for now I'm all about keeping it simple. Blogger is simple enough for a techno-phobe like me.<br />
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Over the next couple of days, I'll be attempting to transfer over my WordPress posts and then watch for some new posts... I've got a couple in the works.<br />
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Hope to chat with you soon!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-782250837126801666.post-43232286467042938842010-08-24T17:04:00.000-07:002010-12-19T17:06:09.814-08:00One last camping trip before school startsThe other day I fell asleep to the sound of my kids playing a board game (in a friendly manner, even). In the morning, they decided they wanted to play some more. This is what I love about family vacations - even if it's just a <b>camping trip</b>. It's that sweet time of unwinding and leaving all of our obligations behind. No housework, no bills, no catching up on work, no neighborhood friends knocking on the door at all hours of the day.<br />
Don't get me wrong, we have a great arrangement in our day-to-day lives. My husband has decent work hours, I work from home and my kids' friends are fantastic. But there's something about not having the option of playing with friends that forces my kids to appreciate one another. And there's nothing sweeter than watching your kids enjoy each others' company and get along.<br />
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<dd class="wp-caption-dd">Show-Off and The Queen getting along!</dd></dl></div><div class="mceTemp mceIEcenter" draggable=""><br />
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<dd class="wp-caption-dd">Yum-Yum going back to his roots, LOL... he was born in the jungle!</dd></dl></div><div class="mceTemp" draggable=""><br />
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<dd class="wp-caption-dd">A homemade swing!</dd></dl></div><a href="http://www.blissfulpandemonium.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/camping-trip-4.jpg"><img alt="" class="size-thumbnail wp-image-101 alignleft" height="150" src="http://www.blissfulpandemonium.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/camping-trip-4-150x150.jpg" title="camping trip 4" width="150" /></a><br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.blissfulpandemonium.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/camping-trip-3.jpg"><img alt="" class="size-thumbnail wp-image-100 aligncenter" height="150" src="http://www.blissfulpandemonium.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/camping-trip-3-150x150.jpg" title="camping trip 3" width="150" /></a></div><i>What do you love most about family vacations?</i>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13788846882063838412noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-782250837126801666.post-59979663991746706492010-08-19T17:11:00.000-07:002010-12-19T17:14:17.541-08:00Much Needed: Help Cleaning HouseI've slipped again on my housekeeping. I've mentioned <a href="http://www.blissfulpandemonium.com/?p=50">before</a> that I can only seem to keep up on so many things at one time. My work is doing fine, thank-you, and I'm getting back into the swing of things with my church responsibilities. But my housework is SCREAMING at me... I need <b>HELP cleaning house</b>!<br />
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And now that school is starting soon, I can no longer afford to neglect it. <a href="http://www.blissfulpandemonium.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/help-cleaning-house.jpg"><img alt="" class="alignright size-medium wp-image-79" height="270" src="http://www.blissfulpandemonium.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/help-cleaning-house-255x300.jpg" title="help cleaning house" width="230" /></a><br />
So, I'm jumping back on the bandwagon with a great system I found a few months ago at a <a href="http://www.blissfulpandemonium.com/?p=4">blogging conference</a> that I went to. I met an amazing woman, named <a href="http://houseoforder.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Marie Ricks</a>, whose business is geared to <span style="color: #993300;"><i>poor, pathetic, unorganized and distracted</i></span> girls like me that need help cleaning house. She created the <a href="http://new.houseoforder.com/" target="_blank">House of Order system</a> to make getting your house in order a simple, manageable process.<br />
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I started using the system back in May and saw a HUGE difference in a matter of days. The system is relatively simple, but that's the magic. Even though I mocked the program for a long time (because it utilizes a bunch of index cards - <i>one more thing for me to lose</i>), it's pretty easy to follow and it makes a noticeable difference.<br />
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Basically, Marie gives you a few tasks that need to be done on a daily basis: <i>tidy the kitchen, a load of laundry, empty the dishwasher, etc</i>. If you do these things every day, they only take a short amount of time and your house will stay presentable, at the very least.<br />
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There are also weekly, monthly and quarterly tasks for an even deeper clean and more orderly home. The beauty is that you can start where you are and build up as quickly or as slowly as you need to. I never got past the weekly tasks (and I didn't even always do those), but my house was getting <i>more organized</i>, I was finally <i>catching up with laundry</i> and I felt <b>comfortable having unexpected visitors</b>.<br />
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Some of you, no doubt, will think it's silly to need a system or help cleaning house. But others of us (and there's more of us than you would think) really need the guidance and structure. Marie is patient and kind and she really knows her stuff.<br />
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So, my new school year resolution is to pick it back up and get things in order before all of the school papers start to pile up again and take over our lives. I'll let you know how it goes...<br />
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What do you do to keep your home orderly without spending all day to do it? Really, <u>please comment</u> - I <u><b>NEED</b></u> all the help I can get.<br />
(Photo courtesy of <a href="http://www.boredla.com/craftiness-is-next-to-godliness-make-your-own-green-cleaning-products/">BoredLA.com</a>)Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13788846882063838412noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-782250837126801666.post-7271255817549521782010-08-18T17:08:00.000-07:002010-12-19T17:10:12.041-08:00Discipline Tips: It's no fun being grounded!Last night I pretty much grounded all four of my kids for the rest of their childhood experiences. Okay, it's only 2 days, but it feels like ETERNITY to me!! And that brings up an important point. Why do we like to torture ourselves so much?<br />
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Like when my mom used to tell us, as she was whipping our hynies, that it actually<i> hurt her more than it did us</i>. ???<br />
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Okay... okay.. I guess I can see that. I choose not to spank my kids, but seriously I think it would be less painful... to me, that is.<br />
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Because they didn't do their chores, even though I threatened them with all but their very existence, they are now confined to the <b>INSIDE</b> of the house (where I am) with only the company of their siblings. There is to be no TV, video games or computer time. What is there to do, you ask? Well, fight and bicker, of course. Oh and don't forget: Make. A. Bigger. Mess.<br />
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I HATE being grounded..... When does school start again?Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13788846882063838412noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-782250837126801666.post-44276378086531544202010-08-18T11:20:00.000-07:002010-08-18T11:20:39.974-07:00Several new posts availableHi Friends!<br />
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Just wanted to remind you of my recent move to Wordpress and a new domain.<br />
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<a href="http://www.blissfulpandemonium.com/">BlissfulPANDEMONIUM.com </a><br />
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I've got several new posts listed, for your reading pleasure :). Including:<br />
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<a href="http://www.blissfulpandemonium.com/?p=86">Being Grounded is No Fun</a><br />
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<a href="http://www.blissfulpandemonium.com/?p=70">I Want My Cake and I Wanna Eat It Too</a><br />
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<a href="http://www.blissfulpandemonium.com/?p=60">A Pending Adoption, A Wardrobe Malfunction and A Sick Kid</a><br />
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<a href="http://www.blissfulpandemonium.com/?p=50">Priorities: A Balancing Act</a><br />
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Check it out and save the new website. I hope to hear from you soon!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-782250837126801666.post-47446674277849187632010-08-17T17:16:00.000-07:002010-12-19T17:19:53.684-08:00I Want My Cake and I Wanna Eat it Too... Confessions of a Work-from-Home MomI work from home and while that is a luxury I'll freely admit, it's still <i>actual</i> work. I think sometimes being a <b>work-from-home mom</b> is over glorified. Still, even <i>I</i> am guilty of making it out to be more than it is.<br />
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For instance, I like to get a regular paycheck, but I still want to act like a housewife. I'm learning, though, that work-from-home mom and stay-at-home mom are not quite the same thing, unfortunately. Since I'm home, it's easy to think that I'm available <i>all of the time</i> to do <b>whatever</b> I want to do. If my friends want to get together for lunch, dinner or anything else, <i>I <b>want </b>to be there</i>. If there is a field trip at my kids' school, I want to be there. When my husband isn't working, <i>I </i>want to not be working too. I want to sleep in, go to the gym, watch all of my favorite television shows, social network and blog whenever I feel like it. I also want to get paid. But getting paid means that I have to work - unfortunately.<br />
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So, even though I have more flexibility than I would at a regular job, I do have to sacrifice some freedom in order to keep my working obligations.<br />
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It means that I have to choose what's MOST important to me. For me, it's really important that I'm available to my kids when they come home from school. In order to do this AND work, it means that I have to sacrifice some sleep and get up early in the morning. Of course, getting up early means that I may not be able to stay out late with my girlfriends. And working in the morning means I may not be available for weekday morning visits or every field trip. That's the price of having a job - whether it's at an actual place of business or at my home.<br />
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Whenever I forget these basic truths (which is often, regrettably), everyone pays the price. I end up missing out on the things that matter most... like family time, after school chats and homework help. I have to be self disciplined enough to treat my home job as seriously as I would a real job - set up a schedule and stick with it.<br />
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In the end, being a work-from-home mom means that I CAN have my cake and take little bites of it now and then too. It's all about moderation, people.<br />
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Do you have questions about working from home? Feel free to drop me a line in the comments section or by email. I'll be following up in a weekly series for work-at-home moms and those who wannabe.<br />
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(Photo courtesy of <a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/technology/2008/jun/19/digitalvideo.internet">The Guardian</a>.)Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13788846882063838412noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-782250837126801666.post-4693669918474972752010-08-16T17:22:00.000-07:002010-12-19T17:27:36.488-08:00A pending adoption, a wardrobe malfunction and a sick kidSo the other day we were driving home from a shopping trip. As we got closer to home, The Showoff says to me, "Mom, do you think we could walk home from here?" "Sure," I say. "But it will take a while." I had my husband let us out anyway, because really, how many more years do I have left before he <span style="color: red;"><b>doesn't even want to be seen with me</b></span>? Needless to say, it <b>was</b> a long walk but I got to learn a few things from him (he's a <b>TALKER</b>). I learned that he really does like to read. He kept talking about The Five Ancestors, a series of books that he's been reading. I also learned that he has a HUGE imagination and he's a bit of a dreamer. (But who isn't at 11?) And I learned of his<b> plans to adopt kids</b>.<br />
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Throughout our walk, he kept mentioning about how he plans on adopting kids. At first I thought that it was just a sweet gesture. Until he said, "Well, I might have just one kid of my own. But that's it. I'm adopting the rest. Do you think that's ok, mom?"<br />
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"Well, yes. Of course it's okay. But, Showoff, I don't get it" I said. "Why do you care? It's your wife that will have to carry and deliver each baby."<br />
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"Because, mom. Ever since, I found out how you make babies, I decided that I'm just going to adopt. 'Cuz<b> I'm not going to ever do <i>THAT</i></b>!" ...<br />
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Oh, how I hope that thought lasts for <i>at least </i>a few more years.<br />
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Of course, if he doesn't change his mind before he gets married, he definitely will after he makes "just one".<br />
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On another note. It turns out that Lil' Mama has quite the fashion sense. She has put together some cute outfits for herself and - I hate to admit it - she's had to counsel me a time or two. Like last week. I wore a brand new dress to church and I was pretty excited about it.<br />
Here's a picture of me in the dress: <a href="http://www.blissfulpandemonium.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/black-shirtdress.jpg"><img alt="" class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-62" height="300" src="http://www.blissfulpandemonium.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/black-shirtdress-225x300.jpg" title="black shirtdress" width="225" /></a><br />
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New hair cut + new dress has to equal fun, right?<br />
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WRONG.<br />
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The buttons kept popping open whenever I sat down, so I had to go home and change. <span style="color: black;"><i>But I didn't want to</i><b>.</b></span> I brought Lil' Mama home with me and I kept telling her how bummed I was. So, what did she do? She fixed it. Yes, <span style="color: red;"><b>my 9-year-old daughter is my personal stylist</b></span>.<br />
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She simply suggested that I wear a black slip underneath the dress and leave the bottom half unbuttoned. And you know what? It completely looked like that's how it was made AND it was more comfortable, too. She saved the day and gave me yet ANOTHER new dress.<br />
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Here's the dress afterward:<br />
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One more: Lo-Lo was sick with a fever last week and it turns out that when his head is hot it turns on his talk button. He was laying down in my room, cuddling with me and telling me about everything under the sun. How this friend likes to play such-and-such and how another friend ditched him, what he thinks his new kindergarten teacher will be like and on and on and on. Then he heard the shower turn on. (Yum Yum had been in the bathroom preparing to shower.) Lo-Lo says, <b><span style="color: black;">"Oh no, mom. Daddy just got in the shower and I don't think he wiped his butt!"</span></b><br />
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</span></b></div>Don't ask... I really have no explanation of where that came from, but I thought it was pretty funny that he came to such a conclusion.<br />
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You know, when I step back and really listen and pay attention, I discover that my kids are pretty cool after all. They keep <b><i>me</i></b> entertained, anyway.<br />
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We really can learn a lot from our kids. What do your kids TEACH you?Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13788846882063838412noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-782250837126801666.post-40811639868441389212010-08-04T17:40:00.000-07:002010-12-19T17:42:46.259-08:00Priorities: A Balancing ActI've been thinking a lot about priorities lately. Maybe it's because my life is usually very out of balance. If I'm caught up and doing well in one area, the other areas are likely to be suffering. I think it's been affecting me more than it ever has in the past. For instance, I may be trodding along with my work and doing well, while my house is slowly falling apart. If I'm on top of all of my housework, you can be sure that I'm falling behind on my work assignments. The same goes with my church responsibilites. And the more I fall behind, the more overwhelming the thought of catching up.<br />
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It's always easier, for some crazy reason, to take care of a big looming project with an immediate deadline than it is to care for the small and simple things that must occur on a regular basis. Ironically, these are the things that make life easier to manage and help those big projects to go more smoothly. I think that lately my priorities have been out of whack and I'm paying the price for it big time.<br />
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I listened to a talk by Julie Beck the other day and it brought it all into perspective. I can categorize all of my regular tasks into three areas: Essential, Necessary and Nice to Do. The Essential items are at the core of who I am, my values and my most important goals in life. The Necessary items are essential to survival and the Nice to Do are just that: nice to do, but I can afford to put them off.<br />
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I find that most of my time is spent in the necessary and the nice-to-do area. I have to work in order to help pay for our necessities (and some nice-to-dos). I have to eat (although maybe not as much as I do :)) and feed my children. I have to care for my home (for my health <i>and</i> my <b>sanity</b>). I don't have to watch television, but at the end of the day it's nice sometimes to unwind and relax with a good show.<br />
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Sometimes in my quest to fill the necessary and reboot, I find that it's my children and my husband that are neglected. These are the essentials in my life. My relationship with Deity starts to suffer as well. Ironically, these things don't often require big chunks of my time. They simply require daily deposits. Some days the deposits may be bigger than others, but there needs to be time invested daily. I believe that when I put the essentials first and the necessities close behind, I will still have time for many of the nice-to-do things on my list. But the essentials will never occur if I am upside down in my priorities.<br />
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This blog is one of the nice-to-do things on my list. I love it, it's a great release for me, and I get share some special memories that my children can come back to and remember. I get to meet some great people and interact with them. But it's all too easy to let it get in the way of the things that are most important to me (the very things that give me something to blog about, ironically). I'm still going to blog. I'm still going to interact with bloggers. But, I've accepted the fact that I may have to move at a slower pace than I had previously planned. If you don't hear from me here, it's because I'm busy tending to the Essentials and feeding the Necessities.<br />
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How do you find balance in your daily obligations?Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13788846882063838412noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-782250837126801666.post-37806829357642226472010-07-30T17:43:00.000-07:002010-12-19T17:45:40.748-08:00Independence gone amuck<div style="text-align: left;">My kids are independent... and I love it. They get themselves dressed (although I sometimes have to face the consequences of that), they bathe themselves and my older two can even make breakfast. Of course, all of them are capable of pouring a bowl of cereal but my older two can also make pancakes, scrambled eggs and oatmeal. Even can though a part of me loves it when they "need" me, it's also pretty sweet when they can help out. Sometimes, of course, independence can get out of control.</div><br />
Like today, for instance. I took my kids to the gas station (it's the local hangout in our small town - at least for our family) to get some slushies. Sure enough, The Queen (six-years-old) marched right in, grabbed a cup and started filling it before I could even catch up to her. When I did, I came upon a huge yellow mess and a slurpee machine spitting out all of its contents everywhere! Unfortunately the lever had come completely off, leaving the slushy contents to come spurting out both the top and bottom.<br />
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I'm Michelle and my kids LIKE doing my work for me... most of the time.Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13788846882063838412noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-782250837126801666.post-67034876357577651202010-07-29T23:47:00.000-07:002010-12-19T18:01:12.433-08:00It takes a community ... to build a blogI'm still relatively new to the blog-o-sphere and I'm learning that I still have lots to learn. Even though I need to figure out how to best fit it into my schedule, I think I'll keep going. It's been fun so far, plus it's a great outlet for me and it lets me connect to others, including friends and family, in a way that I haven't been able to in the past. The good news is there's lots of support out there to help me get going. Bloggers, I'm learning, are community-oriented and they like to connect with other. Many are willing to help newbies like me figure it out. Here's a list of fantastic resources I've found that are a great starting place for me and anyone else who wants to take a dive into blogging. I suggest you give it a try... it can be very rewarding!<br />
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1. <a href="http://www.thesitsgirls.com/" target="_blank">SITS girls</a><br />
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SITS stands for the Secret Is in The Sauce, but their motto is "the secret to success is support". And that's just what they do. Not only are there lots of good ideas floating around in their forum, but all of the members help to support each other in their blogging efforts. Right now the SITS girls are sponsoring a 31 Day Blog Challenge - and I'm participating in it. Although I am dreadfully behind, I'm still learning tons - and you can too. Sign up to be a member of their Blog Frog community where you can easily get lost in the wealth of free information.<br />
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2. <a href="http://www.problogger.net/" target="_blank">ProBlogger</a><br />
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The challenge I'm participating in (see note above) comes from a <a href="http://www.problogger.net/31dbbb-workbook/" target="_blank">book written by Darren Rowse</a>, the ProBlogger. This guy is in the big leagues and he really knows his stuff. Best of all, his blog is full of great tips and information. He's totally down to earth and his material is super easy to read.<br />
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3. <a href="http://momsmakemoneyblogging.com/">MomsMakeMoneyBlogging.com</a><br />
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I met Vanessa Brown at a blogging conference I went to a couple of months ago. She taught a class about monetizing your blog. I was brand new to blogging (I think I had just one post), but her class was very inspiring. I decided to sign up for her 7 month course that really takes you from the very basics and helps you to build a successful blog. Bonus: She is a totally "real" person and a busy mom, at that.<br />
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Plus, there are many, many more blogs devoted to blogging. I think the above sources are enough to keep me busy, though, for the next while.<br />
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What sources and/or tips have you found to be most useful for your blog?<br />
<h5>I'm Michelle- and it's official, I'm a blogger!</h5>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13788846882063838412noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-782250837126801666.post-49706178662450576132010-07-29T21:54:00.000-07:002010-07-29T21:54:14.626-07:00I'm Moving ..... to WordpressRumor has it that Wordpress is the place to be if you're serious about blogging. So, I'm taking the leap and jumping ship while my blog is still new. I'll have to let you know what I think when I know enough to think anything.<br />
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You can now follow along with me at <a href="http://www.blissfulpandemonium.com/">http://www.BlissfulPandemonium.com</a><br />
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All of my blogspot posts have been transferred over, but I'm still working on the design. The content will remain the same bits and pieces of from my miscellaneous life.<br />
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Come visit me soon!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-782250837126801666.post-56487438014253227202010-07-19T07:45:00.000-07:002010-07-19T07:45:37.626-07:00And the LAME Mom award goes to ... MEI should have stood up for my daughter yesterday. I should have had her back and I didn't. And I'm feeling pretty lousy about it. The reasons that I stood there and did nothing like an idiot are long and wide, but they're all pretty LAME excuses.<br />
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Without going into too much detail, she was yelled at by a complete Adult stranger for something that really amounts to nothing. (She rode her scooter on his driveway.) He was just being an old grump and she did nothing wrong. Besides, what happened to "if you have a problem with my child, come and talk to <b>me</b> about it." Especially when she's 6! You don't go around yelling at little kids you've never even met.<br />
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But, it turns out that I'm the big jerk because I sat there and did nothing because of my own <b>stupid</b> issues. Sure I held my daughter and consoled her, but I should have put Mr. Grumps in his place. How dare you yell at my daughter, scare her and make her cry.. right in front of me?<br />
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I do have rock-the-boat issues and I really don't like it when people have an in-your-face type of attitude about everything. While Momma Bear definitely needs to come out from time to time, we can't protect our kids from everything. I get it that sometimes other kids won't want to play with mine and sometimes they may not be nice to each other. I get it that there are consequences for our actions and that my kids need to learn them too. But we're talking about a full-grown adult and a father, at that. I promise myself, my husband and my children that I won't just sit there any more. Next time I'll speak up: "Dude, that's not cool. She's 6. She doesn't know that your driveway is some sort of sacred ground. Lay off."<br />
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Comments?Unknownnoreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-782250837126801666.post-53825394843118499392010-07-15T22:10:00.000-07:002010-07-15T22:10:49.260-07:00FYI: We Don't Want Your Yucky Clothes<style>
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<div class="MsoNormal"><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">I’ve had a couple of experiences in the last month working with donated goods… you know old, outdated flowery decorations, funky furniture and used clothes. It’s been quite fun to see the things that people actually wear. I’ve considered starting a blog called </span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: large;"><b>Yes, Someone Actually Wore This</b></span>. It’s fun to imagine what it might actually have been used for or who wore it. I only hope that the original owner is never standing near enough to hear me when I get started. Oops. I apologize if I offended anyone, but consider yourself schooled. LOL … just kiddin’, <i>kind of</i>. </span></div><span style="font-size: small;"></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRMuqSY1TVylwvEOxaOOUSHQgCcP6SC1jzmQwITLYeEld0mg3TMSleWfkVY1ScYRP8GEeCME1c1V90D9C7-j_22jBqzu8n15joiRnvgdVALkGe2ixL2lOOAZE_uoAm1Q2GxefcxoBK_oPu/s1600/shiny_gym_pants.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRMuqSY1TVylwvEOxaOOUSHQgCcP6SC1jzmQwITLYeEld0mg3TMSleWfkVY1ScYRP8GEeCME1c1V90D9C7-j_22jBqzu8n15joiRnvgdVALkGe2ixL2lOOAZE_uoAm1Q2GxefcxoBK_oPu/s200/shiny_gym_pants.jpg" width="197" /></a><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi442FkztRpTHda0FBoT2X1tYEMtu2wlQUY12WWJRPlypWdMi_mUv6adGC0fjkquWPqfQJV5SW1zY2emwukQn-TXJ4J-tMjxG69nj16PwXqBcZSWk9TSbCUjUZzDHIRc9oZEOg946DEActq/s1600/purple_prom.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi442FkztRpTHda0FBoT2X1tYEMtu2wlQUY12WWJRPlypWdMi_mUv6adGC0fjkquWPqfQJV5SW1zY2emwukQn-TXJ4J-tMjxG69nj16PwXqBcZSWk9TSbCUjUZzDHIRc9oZEOg946DEActq/s320/purple_prom.jpg" /></a><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif; font-size: small;">Anyway, I’m wishing that I would have taken at least some pictures because they would make a great addition to this blog post. Instead, you’ll have to be satisfied with these pictures I found online (courtesy of <a href="http://fashionpolice.net/">fashionpolice.net</a>):</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Ok, so last weekend my neighbors put together a huge yard sale to benefit a neighbor who was recently diagnosed with cancer. I got assigned the <b><i>lovely</i></b> job of sorting through a MASSIVE pile of used clothes. Some of the things we found were nothing short of <b>HILARIOUS</b>. We found an old, bright pink baton-twirler outfit with huge shoulders. My Bishop (my religious leader) told me that if I wore it to church, he would let me sing a solo too. Seriously??? I don’t know what would scare people more, my cellulite or my singing. I’m thinking the singing. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Anyway, I digress. We also found some bright pink pants (to go with the baton-twirling outfit, of course) with blood stains on the legs, BONUS. If that’s not enough we also found a chewed off belt (for those skinny kids – like mine- that can’t fit regular-sized belts), silky pants with rhinestones and yes, <u>dirty socks</u>. <b>EEEWWWW! </b>I don’t even like to touch <i>my own</i> kids' dirty socks, people. But this was for charity, so what am I going to do? All I’m saying is, some things belong in the trash can… or your washing machine. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Well, let’s look on the bright side – I can now sympathize with the patient folks who work at DI (Utah’s version of Goodwill). And I promise not to be one of those offenders. What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever donated… or found at a yard sale?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">I'm Michelle and I follow <a href="http://www.mamakatslosinit.com/">Mama Kat's Writer's Workshop</a>, which inspired this post. Check it out and link up. </span></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-782250837126801666.post-25890074833957304932010-07-13T13:09:00.000-07:002010-07-14T08:41:02.011-07:00I don't feel like working today...How many of you ever feel like that? That's how I'm feeling today and I must admit that I've been feeling this way for a couple of days now. While I've managed to get a little work in, it hasn't been near what it should be. I recognize that many don't have a choice... they have to go to work whether they want to or not. The truth is, so do I. I just don't have to clock in at any particular time.And I don't get paid if I don't do the work. (Whoever invented <i>that</i> rule??)<br />
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Since I have to work (especially if I want to go on that trip I've been planning), here's what I'm going to do:<br />
<ol><li> I'm going to take my kids to the gas station to get a treat (hey, that's all we have around here and it's the happening place)- This will get me out of the house for a few minutes, bribe my kids and give me a caffeine boost to ward off the headache that's coming. Talk about killing 3 birds with one stone.</li>
<li> Then I'll come home and turn on my favorite upbeat music and rock out like noone's watching (and <a href="http://randomlybitsandpieces.blogspot.com/2010/07/am-i-really-that-bad.html">let's hope that they're not</a>). That should get the blood flowing to my brain so that I can concentrate, plus maybe it will burn off at least a portion of that Coke I just drank. (Crossing my fingers.)</li>
<li>Next, I'll take my laptop to The Dungeoun (my office), so that I can work for at least a couple of hours with less interruptions.</li>
<li>Lastly, since I got a late start, I'll have to accept that I may not get as much done today as I'd like to. Instead of beating myself up, I'll forgive myself for being a lazy bum and commit to doing better tomorrow. </li>
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I'll let you know how it goes. In the meantime, what do you do to pull yourself out of the doldrums? <br />
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P.S. For any of you that ever feel this way, check out this<a href="http://scottnesbitt.net/weblog/2010/07/12/i-dont-feel-like-writing-today/"> blog</a>. It's about writing, but I think it applies to almost anything. A "just do it" kind of thing.<br />
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P.S.S. Also, check out <a href="http://www.problogger.net/archives/2010/07/15/how-to-get-things-done-when-youre-feeling-overwhelmed/">How to Get Things Done When You're Feeling Overwhelmed</a>, by Darren Rowse, the ProBlogger.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2